A miserable comforter is a person who comes to someone who is really sick and doesn’t have a voice that heals the hurt.
I have been a visitation pastor for many years. Do I always know what to say for someone who is hurting? However in my experience I have found that I am to comfort not accuse. Even when I know part of the trouble may have been due to life style choices of the person hurting. I have learned that it is better that they tell me what is wrong than me telling them. Also I ask God how I should answer them.
Written by Pastor Curt Darling