1. As wives - If you will submit to your husbands with quietness and respect you will show Christ.
2. As husbands - If you will honor your wives in knowledge, kindness and oneness you will show Christ.
The key is trusting God enough to yield our rights without fear. Do I believe that God is a righteous judge who will only allow in my life that which is for my good and His glory! If I do then I am free to treat my wife with value knowing and meeting her needs before my own. I will treat her with kindness and gentleness manifesting an understanding heart and I will seek to develop a oneness and unity rather than dwell in isolated selfishness.
Walk with the Lord and show meekness in the home!!!